Try This Successful Method to Improve Your Presentations

January 28th, 2009 |

We people who have to prepare to speak before other people often find themselves in a place of gridlock. The fear of being repetitive and boring stares you in the face. I constantly am working on preparing free online bible study. So I understand what its like to experience brain freeze in speech preparation.

How do you put this fear in its place and develop a sermon that is unique and dynamic. May I suggest that you use your senses to help you describe whatever it is you are talking about. I’ll spend more time on the first one and then you can apply it to the rest where I will just share an example or two.

1. The Sense of Sight

When you are preparing your speech, think of how you can visually describe what you are wanting to get across. Let’s use an example throughout this article to help illustrate the points. Let’s imagine you are giving a speech about how to deal with stress.

In what way could you visually describe stress so that it becomes something your audience can see.

If stress were a car, what kind would it be and what would it look like? Stress could be a NASCAR car with its engine maxed out going over 200 MPH dodging and darting through traffic and one wreck after another just trying to survive and win the race while doing it.

Stress could be dump truck moving up a long steep incline loaded to the axle, downshifting every few yards trying to make it to the top.

You can think of other examples. By employing these word pictures, your audience will connect and enjoy thinking of something so common in a new way.

This really helps me in my online bible study. Try using this strategy and see if your verbal barrages begin to improve.

Go ahead, play with it! Stress could be an insect. Stress could be a favorite toy. Stress could be a soft drink. Knock the socks of your boredom and use your eyes to describe stress.

2. The Sense of Smell
The same is applicable to the other senses. Think of how you can describe your topic in terms of smell.

You can make it a favorite perfume or something that stinks. To stick with the example, how would you describe stress in terms of scent.

Stress is like driving by a dairy farm (visual) and then the scent comes into the car. It begins as a slightly discomforting smell and then proceeds to gag you, so you speed up to get through it. Similar to day a work!

You can imagine other examples, you get the drift, pun intended.

3. The Sense of Sound
Stress is like an alarm clock set on snooze, the longer it goes on, the more bothersome it becomes. It also begins to annoy everyone else in the house.

4. The Sense of Taste
Stress is like chunking down jalapeno peppers. At first it doesn’t seem like it’s too bad. But keep at it and you’ll be up all night paying the price.

5. The Sense of Touch
Stress is like getting hold of a live wire. You know its going to kill you if you don’t let go, but you can’t. You need help!

This little tactic can go a long way to breaking you out of the stronghold of boredom.

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The Divisions of a Well built Speech

January 26th, 2009 |

While great sermons and speeches can occur extemporaneously, most of the time quiet a bit of deliberate thought and study is placed into it. I spend time very regularly building free sermons online for bible lessons. The focus of this article is what does s good solid sermon or speech structure look like. Of course, there is no one set form for all people and all sermons and speeches. I will share one that I believe is basic but very solid with you.

1. The Title
The title of the speech is very vital. It is the speaker’s opportunity to prepare the audience and at times even excite them. The title can be used to build an immediate sense of anticipation. It responds the question, What is this about? An example of a title, “The High Cost of Adultery”

For a preacher, the decision is made where to announce the biblical text. It can be at any time but is usually before or after the title. For a speech outside the realm of the church, a text is not needed.

2. The Introduction
The introduction is the speakers opportunity to build a bridge from where the mind of the audience is to where the speaker wants to take them. A quote, story, illustration or startling statement can all be effectively used to build the bridge. A simple question can be used as well. For example, What does it cost a man to commit adultery? Hmmm, that one will cause ears to perk up.

3. The Transition
Keep transition in mind throughout the speech or sermon. This makes the ride smoother for the listener. The transition is mostly a well crafted sentence that moves the listener from what you have just said to what you are about to say. For example, “The cost of adultery is high, I want to share with you five things it will cost you. First it will cost you…”

4. The Main Points
The main points are the big bones of the speech or sermon. They are the fundamental statements you want to make. They are those points that will be on everyone’s notes. Make sure the audience knows what they are. To continue with our example, “First, Adultery will cost you the trust you have built with others.” You should have at least two main points but don’t have so many the audience loses focus. There are a lot of examples of outlines. I have a site focusing on freely available online bible study, please check it out.

5. The Sub Points
Sub-points are simple points you place underneath a main point. An example, “You lose trust with others. First of which is your spouse….” and so forth.

6. The Conclusion
Beyond the obvious meaning of bringing things to a close, the conclusion is the place to briefly summarize what you have shared. This restatement is helpful to insure that you pull all the threads together tightly.

7. The Call to Action
This last component is so important. It is necessary to do this in order to move the audience from just receiving verbal information to experiencing true life change. Since they have heard what you have shared, what do you want them to do? Tell them! This is the call to action.

I hope this basic overview proves helpful to you. Print it out and keep it handy as a resource.

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How to do Online Bible Lessons

January 24th, 2009 |

The study of the Bible is an a joyful adventure. As someone who has spent the last 25 years engaged in studying and teaching the Bible, I thought I would share a brief list of tips to help others who also are engaged in Bible study. Of course there are many methods one can follow, but there are a few resources that will add to any method. I hope that the that the five following free online bible study tips will serve useful to you.

1. Pick Out An Online Bible
Due to the marvel of the internet, a student of the Bible can save hours in time that previously would have been spent in flipping pages searching for this text and that. There are many premium sites that will allow a user to type in a Bible text and instantly have multiple translations of that text appear before their eyes. Try it out. Type in a Scripture reference and watch your search engine go to work. In addition to multiple translations, many online bibles have a keyword search feature as well. When you don’t know the passage you want, you can type in a word related to the topic on your mind. Presto! Any bible passages related will appear. My favorite site is Bible Gateway. You can even get the free code and add their search tool to your own site.

2. Utilize A Topical Bible Resource

A topical index is basically a compilation of keyword searches already put together. The most well known is most likely Nave’s Topical Bible. Just type it in your search engine and try it out. In a flash, you can get a ton of bible passages related to the subject you are studying.

3. Learn How to Use A Strong’s Concordance with Hebrew and Greek Lexicon

The Strong’s Concordance is a well known resource. Find an online bible that is keyed to Strong’s. It usually will be in the KJV of the Bible. The words in the text will have a little number under or above the words of the text. Click on the number and the word will appear with a definition of the original Hebrew or Greek word given. This often will shine a lot of light on understanding the meaning of the text you are studying.

4. Ask Questions of the Scripture

Online or not, don’t leave your interrogation of the bible text undone. One of the most productive tools I have found to use regarding free online bible study is to ask questions of the text. Try it—Who, What, When, Where, Why and How will unearth a lot of goodies for you to share with others. One person’s information will supply the answers to another person’s questions. Life’s greatest questions are answered in the Bible.

5. Gain from the Study of Others Who Offer Their Resources
One of the joys of my ministry is sharing my free sermon outlines with others. Of course there are lots of good sites filled with bible studies out there. Again, just ask your search engine and it will give you the goods.

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Learn to Find Free Sermons to Preach

January 21st, 2009 |

It’s late on Saturday night. This is crunch time for Pastors. Throughout the week, You have thought and prayed–but still no clear direction about what you are going to preach. You envision yourself standing before your audience with a dumb look on your face and no words in your mouth. “No words in your mouth”…scratch that. If you are a preacher, that is probably not going to happen. After all, we are known as those whose words are many, right? Seriously, when you need help getting the idea tumbler turning, what do you do?

Hmmmm, let’s see:

1. Do the old flip the Bible open, close your eyes, and point to a verse. Better leave one eye open.

2. Go back through your outlines from the last church you pastored. Probably won’t understand most of your own handwriting.

3. Pray more diligently and ask God for mercy. This is always good to do even on Monday morning.

4. Thank God for Google and then use it. BINGO!

Of course the above list is a set up to validate my article but still helpful I hope. The wonder of the technology you can use is that you can lean on and glean from what others have preached. You, in essence, assume the role of someone in your congregation who does the same thing when they come to hear you preach.

Simply type something like “free sermons online” into the Google search box. Presto, thousands of instant resources appear before your eyes. Some of these will be in manuscript form, some in outline form, some in audio form, some in a notes format. This really is incredible for bible preachers and teachers. Just go into this like eating fish—when you come to a bone, spit it out.

There are some ethical issues to consider and some practices to safeguard yourself from falling into the ditch of plagiarism. Three quick observations for you:

1. Give credit where credit is due. If a person were to ask you, “Where did you get that new shirt?” Why would you say, “I sewed it myself.” when it fact you got it from the new men’s shop at the mall?

2. Learn to humbly quote your sources. You build the house, but can still share where you bought the lumber. People usually appreciate this because it demonstrates integrity. It also shows you study which is not a bad trait for a preacher. Share your source in a way that demonstrates you are a still a learner yourself. Don’t try to make it look like you read a million pages a week. Be real!

3. Don’t allow your sermons to become verbal bibliographies. If you rely on an entire outline from someone, mention it to your people. For goodness sake, just mention you ran across an online sermon by Pastor Bill Kindheart that spoke to you and inspired you and you want to share his sermon outline filled in with some of your own ideas. By the way, be sure to use some of your own ideas if you say it that way.

If you share a great illustration or piece of info, why not mention it? Like this for example–In his book, Preaching is Fun!, Bill Feelgood says that “One hour of preaching is equivalent to four hours of swinging a 16 pound sledge hammer.” I hope there is no such book with such an author because I just made it up for the sake of making a point as well as the sledge hammer quote though that it is probably fairly accurate. Now when you write it down, give more details so people can go to the original source if possible.

4. Be sure to notice copyright issues. Some do not allow their work to be used. Others may give you permission to use their stuff as long as you give them credit. Others may tell you to just take it and use it. I have a site of bible sermons for free that you can use and change anyway you want. Make them your own. Just notice what the author of the material wants in regard to the use of his/her material.

Anyway, learn to learn from others and give them credit in the appropriate ways without becoming dry as dust in the process.

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Jesus With The Poor Helps Explain a Scripture Verse

January 14th, 2009 |
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Douglas Michaels asked:


Have you ever read a piece of scripture that just totally baffeled you on its meaning?

That happened to me in Luke 12:33 where Jesus says, “Sell your possessions and give to the poor.”

Jesus is addressing His disciples, which means you and me.

So what do I possess? I own a coat, a car, my kid’s clothes, etc. These are things we need. Renting them is not an option.

On the surface this looks like a stupid statement, but the Jesus I know does not make stupid statements. There must be more to this than I am seeing.

I began to read commentaries and really try to think this through, but nothing could resolve this statement into a logical, meaningful message.

I ran across the story of Tolstoy, who was a wealthy Russian who converted to Christianity and sold all his stuff and gave it to the poor. After a short while the poor had consumed everything and all was gone. Also, the employees of his old farm were all miserable because the new owners were not as benevolent as Tolstoy.

I did not find meaning, I found proof! This is a stupid statement!

Jesus with the poor.

I asked the Holy Spirit, since he is supposed to be my teacher and I needed teaching. Immediately this thought came into my mind (not words in my ears, but a thought in my head), “God owns everything, we merely manage.”

This brings us a new question. If I am living as if God owns everything and I merely manage, then what is it I own that I need to sell? Not one thing!

And if I am not living this way, then what am I to do?

Sell what you think you own, because it has become an idol to you.

What do I do with the money from the sale?

Give it away, so that you don’t get tempted to buy something else that you think you own and fall back into the same idolatrous trap.

It is all about ownership. Who is in charge? Looking at the following verse Jesus says, “by doing this we will lay up treasure in Heaven.” This is not a one for one exchange where the people who give the most on earth will get the most in Heaven. It is an attitude of how to live, which is equally available and equally beneficial to us all.

Jesus with the poor has educated me on the correct attitude toward giving.



Anna

The Subversive Jesus

January 14th, 2009 |
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Ernie Fitzpatrick asked:


Subversive isn’t a word that Christians are inclined to use when speaking of Jesus, who became known as the Christ; however, when you look at the historical Jesus within the setting to which He entered, there’s no better word to describe Him. He literally turned the world upside down while the church is still trying to put it right side up. Will we ever get it? Get Him?

Jesus came into a world or setting wherein RELIGION was ritualistic, cultic and ritualistic!

And it still is today though those who are try to make the world more like that which Jesus described as cults. Some 2,000+ years ago each nation had its own god, its cults, and rituals, much like each denomination does today. The Jews were no exception to this paradigm.

Yahweh was the Jewish lawgiver, their ruler, and protector. If they obeyed His laws then they won in battle. If they didn’t fulfill the LAWS they were defeated in battle and things didn’t go well in life generally. It was a highly dualistic consciousness of life. Black and white. Good and bad. And dualism was prolific.

There were rituals for everything- even rituals for rituals.

They created (not God) rituals for birth, for harvests, for repentance of sins, for worship, for remembering, washing hands and eating, and what to eat or not eat (can you say pork?). There was no such thing as the LAW of the LAND that differed from the LAW of God. And we wonder why those of the Muslim faith desire a theocracy and not a democracy?

Come on- think!

And to deny a nation’s ritual or to refuse to enter into such activities was tantamount to treason. Thus, to leave the Sabbath and a time of worship and go home and beat a slave was not an inconsistent act. But Jesus came to change all of that and usher in a spiritual Kingdom, not a nationalistic religion with various laws that have nothing to do with the heart, nor LOVE!

In essence, Jesus was saying in Mark 2:27 that nothing came before God, but that PEOPLE came before laws and rituals. Man was not made for the Sabbath, but the Sabbath was made for man. And for many today the Sabbath is Sunday morning at 11am- not Monday morning at 9am. Get the point, the orthopraxy?

The church has taken the “relative” and absolutized it and in so doing they can’t fathom how someone can love a lesbian, homosexual, or transgendered person. Why would we think that strange when as Jesus was alive and walking with them they were outraged with his socializing, breaking bread, and spending time with the tax collectors, prostitutes, and women who’d been married many times over. Can you say Jesus was UNIQUE too?

Jesus was simply saying that is the LAW (any law) is not conducive to to a fuller life and LIBERTY, it’s simply a BAD LAW! Put another way that the church can’t quite grasp, “LOVE and do as you will.” Say what? Let me use the wors of John Heaps (Catholic Bishop) who said, “A community of mature people should need no more than guidelines agreed upon for the sake of the free-flowing life of people interacting with each other. While ritual is an important element of life, we should be free to express, in an appropriate way, the thoughts and emotions, beliefs and feelings that are insiude us.”

That scares the institutional church and its leaders who still want to believe in fossils and fairy tales.

And that’s one reason Jesus was subversive! :-)



Elaine

In the Bible: is Judah Unique Among Jesus’ Ancestors?

January 9th, 2009 |
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Prof.dr. Ibrahim Khalil asked:


This is a new series (1-11) of Verse No. in the Bible versus the Quran.

In verse No. 11 in the Old Testament, God said, “Let the land produce vegetation: seed-bearing plants and trees on the land that bear fruit with seed in it, according to their various kinds.” And it was so.

Verse No. 11 in the New Testament says that, and Josiah the father of Jeconiah and his brothers at the time of the exile to Babylon..

Verse No. 11 in the Noble Quran says: who believe in that which has been sent down to you (prophet Muhammad) and what has been sent down before you (to prophets Jesus and Moses) and firmly believe in the everlasting life.   

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The verse No. 11 in the Old Testament is Genesis 1:11

The verse continues talking about the creation of the heavens and the earth, it says: Then God said, “Let the land produce vegetation: seed-bearing plants and trees on the land that bear fruit with seed in it, according to their various kinds.” And it was so.

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The verse No. 11 in the New Testament is Matthew 1:11

The verse continues talking about the Genealogy of Jesus Christ, and Matthew lists Jesus’ ancestors, the verse says: and Josiah the father of Jeconiah and his brothers at the time of the exile to Babylon.

Here again, we have the intricacy in writing the names of the persons in the different four versions of the Bible studied.

Fundamentally, the names of the people have no translation, they have to be written as they are pronounced.

How come that a person’s name in one version of the Bible is Jeconiah and in another version of the Bible he is Jechoniah  and in a third version of the Bible, he is Jechonias?

Also, it is noteworthy the Babylon is written as it is pronounced in the four versions studied.

On the other hand, the Bible mentioned many names of Jesus’ ancestors without saying “and his brothers” e.g. Abraham Isaac, Jacob, Perez, Hezron, Ram etc. But when it came to  Judah, the Bible says “Judah and his brothers”. Is Judah a unique among Jesus’ ancestors?  The same is true with Jechoniah (or Jeconiah  or Jechonias), is he distinctive?

Furthermore, it should be emphasized that some women are mentioned in Jesus’ genealogy as wives of Jesus’ ancestors. They are Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, and the wife of Uriah.

Nevertheless, Tamar and the wife of Uriah have committed adultery, Tamar was willing to do it and the wife of Uriah was abused by King David as the Bible claim!

However, None of the Muslims believes in that story about King David!.

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Verse No. 11 in the Noble Quran is Chapter 2:1, Surah Surah AL-BAQARA (THE COW), 2:4

In the previous article (10), verse 2:3, determines who are the believers, it says:

Those who believe in the unseen, that which is hidden from them such as the Angels, Paradise, hell, the Bridge over hell, the Scale, the Resurrection, the Reckoning, the Eternal Fire etc. It is also said that this means: that they believe in the unseen which is revealed in the Quran and also in that which is not revealed therein.

It is also said that the unseen is Allah Himself.

And establish worship, they perform to completion the five prescribed prayers, including the ablution that precedes them, the bowing and prostrations which are parts of them and also what is obligated in these prayers in terms of appointed timing.

And spend of that Allah has bestowed upon them, and of that which Allah has given them of wealth they give to charity. It is also said that this means: they give the poor-due from their wealth.

Verse 2:4, continues the determination of who are the believers, it says:

And those who believe in:

1)      that which is revealed unto thee (Muhammad) of the Quran and

2)      that which was revealed before you of scriptures i.e.  in the Torah, the Gospel and other scriptures given to all the prophets,  and

3)      the Hereafter, they believe in resurrection after death and are certain of the bliss of Paradise; they know it is real.

It follows that Muslims believe in the Quran, Torah and Gospel in addition to the scriptures given to all the prophets e.g. Abraham, David etc.

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Verse No. 11 in the Old Testament, the New Testament and the Noble Quran in Four different Translation

Verse No. 11 in the Old Testament

Genesis 1:11

New International Version:

11] Then God said, “Let the land produce vegetation: seed-bearing plants and trees on the land that bear fruit with seed in it, according to their various kinds.” And it was so.

New American Standard Version:

11] Then God said, “Let the earth sprout vegetation, plants yielding seed, and fruit trees on the earth bearing fruit after their kind with seed in them”; and it was so. English Standard Version:

11] And God said, “Let the earth sprout vegetation, plants yielding seed, and fruit trees bearing fruit in which is their seed, each according to its kind, on the earth.” And it was so.

King James Version:

11] And God said, Let the earth bring forth grass, the herb yielding seed, and the fruit tree yielding fruit after his kind, whose seed is in itself, upon the earth: and it was so.————————

Verse No. 11 in the New Testament

Matthew 1:11

New International Version:

and Josiah the father of Jeconiah and his brothers at the time of the exile to Babylon.

New American Standard Version:

Josiah became the father of Jeconiah and his brothers, at the time of the deportation to Babylon.

English Standard Version:

and Josiah the father of Jechoniah and his brothers, at the time of the deportation to Babylon.

King James Version:

And Josias begat Jechonias and his brethren, about the time they were carried away to Babylon:

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Verse No. 11 in the Noble Quran

Chapter 2: 4

Surah AL-BAQARA (THE COW)

QARIB: who believe in that which has been sent down to you (prophet Muhammad) and what has been sent down before you (to prophets Jesus and Moses) and firmly believe in the everlasting life.

SHAKIR: and who believe in that which has been revealed to you and that which was revealed before you and they are sure of the hereafter

PICKTHAL: and who believe in that which is revealed unto thee (Muhammad) and that which was revealed before thee, and are certain of the hereafter.

YUSUFALI: and who believe in the revelation sent to thee, and sent before thy time, and (in their hearts) have the assurance of the hereafter.

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It is very premature to ask this question:

Is the Quran quoted from the Bible?

Wait and you will see.



Delores

You Can Know for yourself Jesus Christ is Alive Today!

January 7th, 2009 |
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Patricia Wagner asked:


Many people today assume that the Resurrection of Jesus Christ is a legend and not a historical event, but are you aware of certain facts that go against the Resurrection being a myth?

If you’re a skeptic, I want to challenge you to read the rest of this article. Something amazing just might happen to you!

Please consider the following seven points:

1. It takes time for a myth to develop, but belief in the Resurrection of Jesus Christ sprang up instantly.

A myth gradually develops over a period of time as one person after another adds his or her own view to the original story. Thus, it really takes a number of generations for a legend to become stabilized in its final form.

However, in the case of the Resurrection, it happened in a particular place at a particular time in history — in Israel during the rule of Pontius Pilate. Then the news rapidly spread over the entire Roman empire.

2. The Resurrection of Jesus Christ was not hidden in a corner, but there were over 500 credible witnesses of this stupendous event! Many of these people lived for a long time and were available to give their eyewitness accounts of their encounters with the risen Jesus Christ of Nazareth.

One of these witnesses had originally persecuted Christians. He felt it was his God-given duty to eliminate the infant church. This enemy of Christ was Saul of Tarsus, who later had his name changed to Paul. The Lord Jesus Christ appeared to him as he was on his way to Damascus to get legal documents that were needed in order to persecute Christians in that area. Everything changed for Saul when suddenly the Lord Jesus encountered him and changed his whole life.

In our court system today, eyewitnesses are significant to the outcome of a trial. If over 500 eyewitnesses to a murder showed up to give their testimony of what they saw, there would be no doubt as to the outcome of the trial.

3. It’s a well-known fact that Jews do not worship pleural gods. They worship one God instead of many. However, the first church was composed entirely of Jews. What’s so significant about that? Since Jews believe in only one God, the death and resurrection of mythical gods is totally foreign to their way of thinking.

4. There is a strange lack in the Bible of a record of the actual Resurrection event itself. If the Resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead was a legend, His actual Resurrection would be described in glowing details.

5. Women were the first witnesses of the Resurrection of Jesus Christ. However, in that day the testimony of women did not count in courts of law. So why would anyone want to invent a legend when women were the first witnesses and their testimony didn’t even count?

In that day the society was patriarchal. However, in the Resurrection account, the men who were central to the event were hiding because they were so frightened. If the Resurrection is a legend, whoever concocted it made women look like courageous heroes, while the men were portrayed as wimps! This would not have fit in with acceptable societal standards of that day and age.

6. The first appearance of Jesus Christ to one of his followers, Mary Magdalene, was not described in superlative terms. In fact, when Mary first saw Jesus, she assumed He was a gardener and didn’t even recognize Him! If the Resurrection is a myth, the description of the legendary death-overcoming hero would have been written in a much more dramatic way. As you are aware from watching movies and reading about Greek and Roman gods, the stories glorify these supposedly superhuman characters.

The Gospel accounts lack the essential elements of describing a mythical superhero.

However, the New Testament records what actually happened.

7. Would the entirely Jewish original church have wanted to worship as their Messiah a crucified criminal?

Something tremendously impressive must have happened to cause those Jews to follow to the death someone who was considered by Rome to be an enemy of the state!

An event of monumental proportions did occur! Jesus of Nazareth rose from the dead!

The Resurrection does not quality as a myth because it sprang up instantly and there was no time for a legend to develop. Over 500 eyewitnesses encountered the living Christ and were on hand to tell of their experiences. The original church was entirely Jewish and Jews don’t believe in more than one God. Why would Saul, who later became known as Paul, give up everything — including his life — to preach the Gospel when he had been the chief persecutor of the first Christians? Why would thousands of believers be willing to be martyred for a lie? These early believers were thrown to the lions, covered with oil and lit as human torches to light up Caesar’s garden at night, and met other cruel deaths.

The Resurrection of Jesus of Nazareth from the dead is a historical fact. Many people through the centuries have been encountering the living Christ! As a result, their lives have been transformed. Those who trust Him receive the gift of eternal life… plus joy and peace in this present life — no matter what problems they face.

What about you? You can meet the living Savior too!

“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life” (John 3:16).



Norma

7 Ways Jesus Did not Deal With Stress

January 3rd, 2009 |
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Thomas Greenslade asked:


Then Jesus said, “Let’s get away from the crowds for a while and rest.” There were so many people coming and going that Jesus and his apostles didn’t even have time to eat. Mark 6:31 (NLT)

Jesus experienced enormous stress and pressure, yet it didn’t seem to disturb his peace of mind. In spite of opposition, constant demands, and little privacy, his life reflected a calm sense of balance.

If you want to be stressed do the opposite of what Jesus did.

1. Let others press you into their molds. (John 8:12)

Don’t try to know who you are. Try to be someone you really aren’t. That will give you lots of stress. Jesus, on the other hand, told the people who he was eighteen times.

2. Try to please everyone. (John 5:30)

You can’t please everyone. Even God doesn’t! When you get “Person A” happy, then “Person B” will be upset with you. Jesus never let the fear of rejection manipulate him. No one can pressure you without your permission.

3. Wing it. Don’t sweat the details. (John 12:27)

Jesus said, “…it was for this very reason I came…” (NIV) He had priorities based on his focus. Wing it all the time, put off planning, and one day you will sweat it. Preparation prevents pressure, but procrastination produces it. You work by either priorities or pressures.

4. Try to do a lot of things at one time. Multitask as much as possible. (Luke 4:42-44)

You can’t chase two rabbits at the same time! Jesus knew how to handle interruptions without being distracted because he knew his primary goal. In fact, He sometimes turned distractions into opportunities to accomplish his goal.

5. Do everything yourself because other people are a pain and get in the way. (Mark 3:14)

We get tense when we feel it all depends on us. Jesus enlisted twelve disciples. Don’t allow trying to be perfect, or the fear that others may not do a good enough job, keep you from involving others in the task.

6. Prayer time is a waste of time. Don’t stop thinking about the things you have to and want to do. (Mark 1:35)

No matter how busy Jesus got, he made time to be alone to pray. A daily prayer time is a great stress reducer. Use this time to talk to God about your pressures and problems. Through reading your Bible you will evaluate your priorities, and discover peaceful living.

7. Work is the most important thing. Don’t stop till you drop. (Mark 6:30-31)

Balance is the key to stress management. Jesus balanced work with fun and rest.

Based on the article, “Seven Secrets of Stress Management,” by Rick Warren.



Chester

The Non Dual Jesus

January 2nd, 2009 |
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Ernie Fitzpatrick asked:


We who call ourselves Christians are supposed to be modeling the one who went by the name JESUS and who became the CHRIST. And it is within those two names that we become immediately confused, thinking those are His first and last names when in reality they speak of His two natures. He was not the son of Joseph & Mary Christ!  

The church hs some interesting concepts of SALVATION. I need not go there, but write the following.

Some of the Nicean Creed got it right. Jesus, the Christ was fully human and fully divine. But, let us go on with the paradigm. Jesus was also the archetype of what fully human and fully divine means. He was the umbilical cord holding together heaven and earth. He had a male body with a female soul. He was the Son of God and the Son of Adam. He was the fullness of consciousness.

And hello! So too be we Brutus!  :-)

I and you are sons and daughters of both God and earth, of divinity and of flesh, and of spirit and of material. The church has tried to have us kill the flesh, kill the earthiness, the humanity that we are. Why would want want to kill that which God gave us? What we need to do is to bring them together as one. I like the way Richard Rohr put it…….

“Our goal ought to be a spirituality connected to this world in every aspect, seeing he divine light through the mundane, the physical, the material, the entire cosmos- and not only in the churchy, the correct and the pure, which keeps the world split and contentious. Jesus is the icon of what salvation means. When the two can happily coexist within us, one might say that we are SAVED.”

I know that will turn some heads and put a bad taste in the mouth of some, which is why we stay forever addicted to our dualistic paradigms: God hating Esau, so we are free to hate also. God killing and so we can. And we never ever get well- healed. If we’re going to call ourselves Christians and follows of Jesus, maybe we should model our lives like Him as well.

Jesus (fully human), the Christ-os (fully divine).

Whatcha think? Too radical? Did you not know that Jesus was a RADICAL, and subversive teacher, a reformer, and a pain in the butt for the church? Tell me you knew that! Come on, be honest. You knew that, right!

Then tell yourself that you’re going to FOLLOW HIM, by being non-dualistic!



Joshua